Pluto in Libra: your biggest changes come through the people you commit to

The people you commit to tend to arrive at turning points. A spouse moves you to another city, a business partner pulls you into a field you never planned for, a breakup sends you back to study. Looking back, your life divides into chapters by who you were with.

That is worth knowing when you choose. A partner is never a small decision for you, so give yourself the time to see how the other person behaves when they lose an argument or run short of money.

You were raised on good manners, and you learned early that a smile gets more done than a raised voice. The catch is that a struggle can go on for years under the courtesy. Who decides where the holidays go, whose career moves first, who apologises: these get settled silently, and resentment builds on the side that keeps yielding.

Say the uncomfortable thing while it is still small. “I want us to decide this together” is a sentence you are allowed to use, and it costs less now than a cold war later.

Unfairness does not stay abstract for you. A colleague taking credit, a friend paying less than their share of the bill, a court case in the news: you feel it physically and want it corrected.

The risk is keeping score. When every favour goes into a ledger, a relationship turns into accounting. Let some things go unpaid, and save the fight for the unfairness that really matters.

Your generation learned that a relationship can end and the paperwork outlives it. You tend to take agreements seriously: prenups, shared mortgages, partnership contracts, who owns what after a split. Read before you sign, and put in writing what is usually left to trust.

Your taste leans toward things with some weight to them: a dark palette, a film that leaves you uneasy, a piece of jewellery with a story. Pretty for its own sake bores you. Spending on well-made objects and on art that moves you is money well spent.